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Shane Marston reviewed Quest Martial Arts Academy
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I have been training at Quest for 4 1/2 years and have learned a lot. I have met some awesome people and made great friends, all while learning how to defend myself and working on some important qualities I can apply to everyday life. I always have great time in class and learn something every class! It's a great school!

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Quest martial art program is great at teaching my son about responsibility, respect and commitment. The instructors know each child personally, and work to highlight their individual strengths. They also push each kid to help them do their personal best and also encourage them to do better when they are giving less than 100%.

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Our son takes classes and has been for just shy of a year now. He really loves it. As parents we have instilled manners or try too anyway. Quest has helped cement those manners and we get compliments all the time on how polite and helpful out son is!
Would highly recommend Quest!

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When we first signed our 4-year old up for Karate lessons with Quest Martial Arts, we weren't too sure if it was something that would interest him. But from the start, all of the sensei were wonderful and patient with him. They let me join in the class with him as he was a little shy, and halfway through, he didn’t even notice when I stepped out as he was having such a great time learning with the other students. He has grown leaps and bounds with his newfound skills, confidence, self-discipline, and respect of others! We have even caught him practicing his Karate skills in his room when no one else is there – including pushups! While looking at all the pictures on the Quest wall of past and current Black Belts, and said that one day, he’d have his picture up there too!

We were so impressed with the dojo that my husband and I decided to join as well. Our first class turned out to be a fitness test, so now we know that there’s only up from there! :) My husband and I have already seen improvement in our flexibility and endurance, and we’re having fun learning different weapon and self-defense skills. Everyone has made us feel welcome, and I encourage anyone of any background/ability/age, to come check them out. You’ll be glad you did!

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My karate journey at Quest Martial Arts began with a free women’s self-defense seminar. I was hooked after that and attended 2 more seminars before I actually enrolled. It is an incredibly positive environment that I like to call “my happy place”. The school focuses not only on the physical aspect but on your mental well- being also. All of the instructors are caring and patient so you immediately feel right at home. At 42 I didn’t see myself starting anything like this but now I can’t imagine my life without it.

Quest is my extended family. We challenge and encourage each other to better ourselves and we celebrate each other’s accomplishments. I was always involved in sports growing up but had not found anything to match that as an adult. I am definitely not into going to a gym which I attribute to the fact that there’s no one there to push me and hold me accountable. I think that is the case with many adults so karate is a perfect alternative in my mind. I have lost weight and become stronger both physically and mentally. I have more confidence and have proved to myself that I CAN do things that I thought I would never be able to do which is a great feeling. The school has taught me to believe in myself and my capabilities and has helped move me out of my comfort zone.

They often offer specials so you can try a few classes and see if it’s a good fit for you. I would recommend this school to anyone. They are currently offering a free Women’s Self Defense seminar January 27th so that’s a great place to start for all you ladies out there. That’s where my journey to a black belt began and I’m so glad it did.

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When our sons were 3, there wasn't a whole lot of activities for their age group, but we wanted to get them involved in something. Since we live in town, we had heard about Quest (all positive!) and decided to try it out. Our boys have a lot of energy and really needed something to help them focus and reinforce qualities taught at home, such as honesty and respect. Not knowing a great deal about the world of martial arts, I was a bit nervous and intimidated but as soon as they had their first class, the staff at Quest has made us feel incredibly comfortable and reassured us when we (and the boys) needed a bit more support. Our boys needed one of us to participate with them in class for several months and we always felt very supported. The program and staff at Quest are very professional and challenge our sons to be at their best! My mom and I also participated in one of the self-defense workshops which was so much fun! There's always extra happenings for the whole family too! We've really enjoyed our experience and the friends we've made. We look forward to many more! I highly recommend Quest Martial Arts!

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If I could, I would rate Quest Martial Arts a 10. I have been doing Karate here for 3 1/2 years now. Tomorrow I will turn 66 years old. Who would have thought I would be doing Karate at this age!
I was told by Master Nelson that you are never too old to start something new in your life. She is so right.
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I do fitness and Karate at least 2 times a week. In the over 3 years, I have built self esteem, strength, confidence and am off my blood pressure medicine. I look forward to coming and learning more about myself and this art form each week.
If you are looking to try something new in your life, no matter what age, Quest is the place to try it. Give them a call, you will not be sorry! Call or stop in today!

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The Sensei’s are a wonderful group of truly exceptionally people. They are caring, thoughtful and constantly seek to improve their methods to help train the students to be their best. This October will mark our son’s 10th year as a student at Quest Martial Arts Academy. Our middle daughter is in her 7th year. Our youngest has just started her martial arts training. I couldn’t be more proud of my children and I cannot be more grateful for the excellent staff at Quest. Thank you so much to all the wonderful people who have help shape our children in to the terrific young people they are. I look forward to watching my youngest grow and enjoy your program over the years to come.

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Helping Your Child During a Meltdown

If you are a parent, you probably have experience a time in which your child had a full blown meltdown.  To you it may have seem like something super small; however, by your child’s reaction it was something extremely major.

Your child’s melt down is a results of many things including a limited vocabulary because in order to have self-control you have to understand and manage your emotions, thoughts, and physical actions.  So, with a limited vocabulary and a brain which has not been fully developed, it easier to understand why a child goes into meltdown mode.  It is a normal part of growing up.

So, what are some things you can do to help your child the next time…

Be patient and stay calm during your child’s meltdown.

1 – Stay calm yourself.  Your child needs you to be calm as stress is contagious.  You don’t want your child to feed off of your stress.  Take a few deep breathes and say to yourself “we will get through this and I will be able to help my child.”

2 – Redirect them.  This may be done in a number of ways.  You may consider a distraction to draw your child’s attention away from the meltdown.  Another way to redirect them is to suggest moving to a quieter areas such as the car if you are in the store.  Make sure with either of these suggestions that you remain calm with your voice as well as your body language.  Staying calm with your body language and tone of voice is essential as your child’s vocabulary is growing.

Think of your child’s vocabulary this way:  the average 2 year old’s vocabulary is 200 to 300 words, a 3 year old is 900 to 1,000, a first grader has approximately 8,000 to 14,000, a ten year old knows at least 20,000 words, and a high school graduate upwards to 80,000.  In fact, research suggest your vocabulary continues to build well into your 60s and 70s.

3 – Listen to your child and continue to remain patient.  If your child is old enough to communicate, lend two ears.  Be cautious of arguing with your child.  You don’t have to give in; however, at the same time you want to deescalate the situation rather than escalating it.   Tell them you are listening and speak slowly and quietly adding a calming affect to the stress your child is experience.

Learning to handle these meltdowns in a patient and calming way will help your child learn how to manage their emotions as they grow older and have a larger vocabulary and a faster brain processing speed.  Children will model a parent’s behavior and when parents demonstrate good control of their emotions during stressful times, their children will learn manage their emotions as well during stressful times.

As always, be kind to yourself.  It is not easy being a parent and I am sure most parents experience regret about decisions they have made or how they handle a situation.  Remember, life is a journey.  Learn from your experiences and make sure you child sees you learning and growing stronger; physically, mentally, emotionally, and socially.

So other parents can learn, please share a time when you felt your handled your child’s meltdown really well.  We are all in this together.  Learning to become better parents every day.